Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Helen Hardy

Helen Hardy

BACP

United Kingdom

Continue with Helen

Compassionate counsellor for anxiety and loss

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Relationship concerns
  • Trauma informed

About Helen

Helen Hardy is a counsellor who helps people feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, stress and major life changes. She works with people dealing with relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief and depression. Helen writes in a straightforward way and aims to meet people where they are.

She draws on ten years of professional experience in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Sessions focus on understanding what matters to the person in front of her and on practical steps they can try between meetings. Helen adapts the pace and tone of sessions to each individual's needs.

Her approach includes looking at how early attachment patterns shape current feelings and relationships, and exploring personal history to make sense of repeated patterns. She also uses client-centred methods that place the person’s concerns and priorities at the centre of the work. For people who have experienced traumatic events, Helen uses trauma-focused work to address memories and the ways they affect daily life.

Helen is straightforward about planning therapy together. She explains options clearly and helps people set realistic short-term steps alongside longer-term aims. That mix aims to reduce immediate distress while also building understanding and resilience.

Her style is respectful and compassionate, with an emphasis on listening first. If you are nervous about starting, she acknowledges that first step is often the hardest and works at a pace that feels manageable.

How Helen's approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current reactions and connections. Online sessions can help people notice patterns in their relationships and practise new ways of relating with support. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and on the person's own goals and choices. In online sessions this means the counsellor follows the person's lead and helps clarify what they want to change or understand.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Helen aims to decide together which methods feel most useful based on the person's needs, aims and preferences. The process is collaborative and flexible, with regular check-ins to adjust focus and pace.

If you are considering online work, confirm the available session formats before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit meetings around day-to-day life, reduce travel time and allow shorter catch-up sessions when needed. It can also suit people who prefer speaking from a familiar setting or who want steady, ongoing support while juggling other commitments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Helen works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, depression and coping with life changes, along with related concerns such as attachment issues and codependency.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses a gentle, client-centred style that listens first and then tailors sessions to individual needs. Practical steps and longer-term reflection are combined in the work.

How much experience does she have?

Helen has ten years of professional experience working with people on issues like anxiety, grief and trauma.

Where is she based and what credentials does she hold?

She practises in the United Kingdom and is BACP registered, which is the credential supplied in her profile.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I do to begin working with her?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Whenever you are ready

Review online therapy options and next steps on BetterHelp, in your own time.

Continue with Helen

Online talk therapy is not emergency or medical care. Chest pain, trouble breathing or new physical symptoms should be checked by a doctor. In immediate danger? Crisis numbers

Back to all therapists

Continue with Helen