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Paula Talling

Paula Talling

BACP

United Kingdom

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Calm, practical support for anxiety and panic

  • Person-centred approach
  • Somatic awareness
  • BACP registered

About Paula

Paula Talling is a counsellor who aims to help people experiencing anxiety, panic and related worries. She writes plainly and talks through what’s happening now and what keeps things going. Paula offers a calm presence and practical ways to manage strong feelings so daily life becomes easier to live with.

Paula works from a mix of approaches that respond to each person. She listens for how early relationships shaped current patterns. She also uses body-focused work and mindfulness to notice how stress shows up physically. Sessions are aimed at understanding triggers and building coping skills rather than relying on labels.

Her background includes six years of professional practice and registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Paula draws on person-centred ideas alongside psychodynamic thinking and somatic methods. She combines these to tailor therapy to what a person needs in the moment.

Typical concerns she addresses are stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, sleep problems, grief and low self-esteem. There is also a focus on relationship issues, communication problems, abandonment and attachment concerns, and panic disorder and panic attacks.

Paula invites people to take small steps at their own pace. She encourages honest conversation about what works and what doesn’t. The aim is to leave sessions with clearer choices, fewer overwhelming moments, and a steadier sense of self.

How Paula’s approaches work in online therapy

Paula uses attachment-based ideas and somatic methods alongside a person-centred way of working. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships influence current responses and helps people notice repeating patterns in relationships. Somatic therapy pays attention to bodily signals and can help when anxiety or panic shows up as tightness, breath changes or other body sensations.

Finding the right blend of approaches is part of the process. Paula will work collaboratively to identify what feels most helpful based on the client’s goals, life circumstances and comfort with different techniques. She adjusts pace and methods as those needs become clearer in sessions.

The practical benefits of online work include fitting therapy around busy schedules and reducing travel time. Please confirm available session formats before booking, as these are arranged through the platform. Online options can make it easier to keep appointments during the working day or to check in without a long commute, while still allowing for exercises that focus on bodily awareness and breathing techniques.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationEmptinessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyHypnotherapyPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Paula help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, depression and related issues like sleep problems and low self-esteem.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is listening-led and practical. Sessions blend talk work with body-focused exercises and mindfulness.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has six years of professional experience working in counselling settings.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are costs and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a therapy relationship?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Whenever you are ready

Review online therapy options and next steps on BetterHelp, in your own time.

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