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Brandi Loudermilk

Brandi Loudermilk

LCMFT

Kansas

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Therapist focused on practical change

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Relationship and intimacy
  • LGBTQ affirming

About Brandi

Brandi Loudermilk is a licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist (LCMFT) who brings a decade of clinical experience to therapy. She offers a calm, direct presence and helps people take practical steps when life feels overwhelming. Brandi focuses on anxiety and stress, relationship and intimacy concerns, depression, and matters affecting LGBTQ clients.

Her work often includes conversations about sexual issues, consensual non-monogamy, and BDSM or kink when relevant to a person’s goals. She also supports people navigating attachment difficulties, codependency, and family of origin struggles. Brandi has experience with first responder concerns, dissociation, and challenges that come with co-occurring conditions.

In sessions she aims to make change feel doable. Conversations are straightforward and goal-focused. She helps people build skills to manage panic and anxiety, improve communication, and address intimacy or relationship patterns that cause strain.

Brandi draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques and adapts interventions to each person’s needs. She views therapy as a collaborative process and works with clients to set practical steps between sessions. Her approach is respectful of non-traditional relationship systems and the needs of LGBTQ people.

She holds a Kansas LCMFT license and has worked with a wide range of concerns over the past ten years. If you are looking for a therapist who will listen and help you make clear, achievable changes, Brandi can be a guide through that work.

Evidence-based approaches and how they work online

Brandi uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide practical change. One common approach focuses on anxiety management through learning specific skills to reduce panic and calm the body and mind. These skills often include pacing breathing, noticing early warning signs, and practicing small exposures to feared situations to build confidence. Another frequently used approach targets relationship and intimacy concerns by improving communication and identifying patterns that cause conflict. This work centers on clear, concrete steps for talking about needs, setting boundaries, and repairing interactions over time. Choosing the right approach is part of therapy. Brandi works collaboratively to match techniques to each person's goals, needs, and preferences. She will explain options, try methods, and adjust the plan based on what is most helpful for the client. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life. It can reduce travel time and allow for shorter check-ins when that helps keep progress steady. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking to understand whether remote sessions are available and how they are scheduled. Overall, the goal is to find workable ways to bring therapeutic tools into everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Kansas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Brandi address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, and concerns common in LGBTQ communities. The profile also lists a range of related focuses such as attachment issues, sexual concerns, and first responder issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is direct and practical with an emphasis on building skills. She frames therapy as collaborative and helps clients set achievable steps between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Brandi has ten years of clinical experience working with a broad set of presenting issues and relationship configurations.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She holds an LCMFT credential, which stands for Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist, and practices in Kansas.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking so you know whether remote or in-person meetings are offered.

How is payment handled and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Exact pricing depends on the match and scheduling details.

How do I begin working with her?

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